Your Child’s First Day at Nursery: How to Make It a Positive Start
Starting nursery is a big milestone for both children and parents. At Walmgate Day Nursery in York, we understand that the first day can bring a mix of excitement, nerves, and questions. Preparing well can make all the difference in helping your child settle in happily and confidently.
Here are our top tips for making that first day a success – along with helpful FAQs, a packing checklist, and more.
1. Talk Positively About Nursery
Children take cues from their parents. Use enthusiastic language when talking about nursery — focus on the fun activities, new friends, and friendly staff. This builds a sense of excitement and curiosity rather than fear.
2. Visit the Nursery Before the First Day
If possible, arrange a visit to Walmgate Day Nursery before your child’s first full day. Familiarising them with the environment, staff, and layout can reduce anxiety and make the setting feel more comfortable.
Top Tip: At Walmgate Day Nursery, we offer settling-in sessions to help your child get familiar with the environment in a gentle, supportive way.
3. Establish a Routine Early
In the weeks leading up to the first day, start shifting your child’s schedule to match nursery timings – especially sleep, meals, and getting dressed. A consistent routine helps children feel secure and better prepared.
4. Practice Short Separations
Gradually increase the time your child spends away from you in the run-up to nursery. This could mean leaving them with a trusted friend or family member for short periods, helping them adjust to being away from you during the day.
5. Pack a Comfort Item
A small familiar toy or blanket can provide comfort in those first few days. At Walmgate Day Nursery, we encourage children to bring a comforting item if it helps with settling in.
6. Label All Belongings
From coats to water bottles, make sure all your child’s belongings are clearly labelled. This avoids confusion and helps them feel more independent and confident as they begin to manage their own items.
7. Expect an Adjustment Period
Every child is different – some settle quickly, others may take a few days or weeks. Stay positive, patient, and consistent. Our experienced team is always here to support both you and your child throughout the transition.
8. Stay Calm and Confident at Drop-Off
Keep goodbyes short but loving.
It’s normal to feel emotional, but showing confidence helps reassure your child that nursery is a safe and happy place. A quick goodbye and a smile can work wonders.
🧳 First Day Nursery Checklist
- 👕 Spare set of labelled clothes
- 🧷 Nappies/wipes (if needed)
- 🧸 Comfort item (optional)
- 🍼 Water bottle or sippy cup
- 🧢 Weather-appropriate hat (sun hat or woolly hat)
- 🌞 Sun cream (if warm weather)
- 💊 Any medication (clearly labelled with instructions)
❓ Frequently Asked Questions
What should my child wear to nursery?
Dress your child in comfortable, weather-appropriate clothes that are easy to move around in and okay to get messy!
Can I stay with my child during the first few sessions?
Yes, we offer settling-in sessions where you can stay for a short time. Our team will work closely with you to find the best approach for your child.
How will I know how my child is doing?
Our team provides regular updates, either verbally at pick-up or via our parent communication app. You’ll always know how your child is settling and what they’ve been up to.
What happens if my child gets upset?
This is completely normal. Our trained staff use comforting strategies and gentle routines to support children through any tears. Most little ones settle very quickly.
Does my child need to be toilet trained?
Not at all. We support children at all stages of their development, including those still in nappies or learning to use the toilet.
⭐ Why Choose Walmgate Day Nursery in York?
Located in the heart of York, Walmgate Day Nursery is a warm, welcoming, and stimulating environment for children aged up to 5 years. We’re proud of our caring, qualified team who work in partnership with parents to support every child’s unique journey.
- ✅ Flexible hours to suit busy families
- ✅ Secure outdoor play areas
- ✅ Healthy meals cooked on-site
- ✅ Settling-in support for new starters
📞 Get in Touch
If you’re preparing for your child’s first day, or still choosing the right nursery, we’d love to hear from you.
☎️ Call Us: 01904 733833
✉️ Contact Us: Enquiry Form
Book a nursery visit today and see what makes our nursery a second home for so many local families.